The 5 R's: Reconnnection

A Framework for Personal & Collective Transformation

Good morning, friend.

Welcome to the 2 new subscribers that joined the newsletter this week.

Thanks to each and every one of you reading— we just hit 50 subscribers.

Last week, I introduced you to the mission of Discover More Health and my intentions for the newsletters to come.

This week, I’m introducing the Discover More Health Transformation Framework— a concept that will inform the content I create and share from this point forward.

  1. Reconnect

  2. Reimagine

  3. Rebuild

  4. Reflect

  5. Refine

This framework is the synthesized result of my decade-long health journey of study and self-experimentation. Since 2015, I have read dozens of instructive books, listened to hundreds of podcasts, worked with several personal coaches, and completed numerous courses of study - all in pursuit of healing, health, happiness, and growth.

I believe these 5 steps provide a simple and concrete framework for creating sustainable transformation, so I’m incredibly excited to share the first pillar with you today.

Let’s get to it.

1) Reconnection

“I’ll tell you what hermits realize. If you go off into a far, far forest and get very quiet, you’ll come to understand that you’re connected with everything.” – Alan Watts

As philosopher Alan Watts astutely observed, we and the world are deeply interconnected. Just a few minutes spent in nature quickly reveals the reciprocal relationship that all beings share.

Looking around in 2022, on the other hand, suggests that companies & politicians are trying their dardest to keep us disconnected.

Social media keeps us distracted, processed food makes us sick, and our systems oppress the many to advantage the selected few.

These are just a few of the many examples that indicate that we live in a culture of deep disconnection, despite being in a world of inherent interconnection.

In my life— whenever I feel lost or sad, I’m usually disconnected from my mission & vision.

When I feel sick or tired, I’m likely disconnected from my physical body.

And when I feel lonely or upset, I’m often disconnected from my friends and family.

These feelings surface far less often than they did years ago, thanks to the coaches, friends, and resources I’ve connected with over the past few years. But they still rear their heads from time to time, and now, when they do, I reconnect.

Here’s how: Finding the present moment and tuning back into my true nature.

As Eckhart Tolle writes in his book “The Power of Now,” “The present moment holds the key to liberation. But you cannot find the present moment as long as you are your mind.”

In other words, Presence is the key to Reconnection.

So what does this look like?

Just a few deep breaths can dramatically shift our physiology and help us drop into our bodies.

Or if you have more time - meditation is a powerful tool that’s been used across cultures for thousands of years, and now, is becoming well-documented within the scientific community.

For example, a Harvard study conducted in 2015 showed that an 8-week daily meditation program showed unmistakable physical changes, such as the shrinking of the amygdala (brain’s fear center) and the expansion of the brain stem— the area in which feel-good neuro-chemicals dopamine & serotonin originate. (Schulte, 2015).

These results are hard to contend with and they are possible for all of us to attain.

All by reconnecting to the present moment.

Other reconnection tools that are worth mentioning are exercise, mindfulness practices, cleaning your living space, and spending time in nature.

Whatever your vehicle of choice, reconnecting to the present moment and your true nature is the fundamental first step of any transformation.

As author and psychologist Susan Campbell writes in her book “Getting Real,”

“The way out is to go deeply in.”

I was tempted to share write-ups for each of these 5 steps, but let's be honest— you wouldn't read a 2200-word newsletter.

I respect your time and attention way too much for that.

I appreciate you reading and hope that Pillar 1 (Reconnection) gives you a taste of what's to come.

Reconnecting, before reacting, is the key to tuning into our powerful intuition, and moving forward in a grounded and intentional manner.

Next week, we’ll dive into Pillar #2: Reimagination

As always, if you have any questions or ideas floating around - I’d love to hear from you.

Hope you have a great and (re)connected week ahead.

With Gratitude,

Aidan

This was a Special Week in Hip-Hop:

Kendrick Lamar, the only rapper to win a Pulitzer Prize, is widely considered to be the best in the world right now. "The Heart Part 5" is his first musical release since 2017, and has been incredibly well-received for its lyricism and music video production.

Logic and Russ are each talented in their own right, so a collaboration between the two is a special treat. In "Therapy Music," they share their personal mental health journeys through a series of especially flowy raps.

Whether you're a hip-hop fan or not, these two songs provide a simultaneously scary & beautiful education in both hip-hop and modern-day culture.

Podcasts of the Week:

How to Age in Reverse, The Future of Space Travel & Mankind's Next Great Innovations w/ Peter Diamandis EP 1264

Listen to this episode from The School of Greatness on Spotify. Today I'm joined by Peter H. Diamandis. Recently named by Fortune as one of the “World’s 50 Greatest Leaders,” Peter is the founder and executive chairman of the XPRIZE Foundation, which leads the world in designing and operating large-scale incentive competitions. He is also the executive founder of Singularity University, a graduate-level Silicon Valley institution that counsels the world's leaders on exponentially growing technologies. He's also the co-author of Life Force: How New Breakthroughs in Precision Medicine Can Transform the Quality of Your Life & Those You LoveIn this episode, you will learn:The most exciting innovations in our current and future worldHow we can slow down and possible reverse agingWhat Preventative Health Care could look likeThe importance of enrolling people in your dreamHow to take on a Moonshot MindsetFor more, go to: lewishowes.com/1264Get Peter's new book, Life Force: How New Breakthroughs in Precision Medicine Can Transform the Quality of Your Life & Those You LoveFor Peter's 30-day Mindset Challenge: Diamandis.com/mindsetFor Future News & innovations: FutureLoop.comFor Health Innovations: LongevityInsider.orgThe Surprising Secrets to Aging w/ David Sinclair: EP 1232Embrace the Future w/ Peter: EP 881See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dax Shepard ON: Prioritizing Your Mental Health After Addiction & How to Make Peace with Your Past

Listen to this episode from On Purpose with Jay Shetty on Spotify. Do you want to meditate daily with me? Go to go.calm.com/onpurpose to get 40% off a Calm Premium Membership. Experience the Daily Jay. Only on CalmJay Shetty sits down with Dax Shepard to talk about valuing yourself and sticking to what you believe in above all. At certain points in our life we will come across conflicting interests and opposing ideas, and these could shake the foundation of what we believe to be right. And that’s okay. Living with two opposing ideas can be challenging but these will give us new and better life perspectives. Dax Shepard is an actor, comedian, writer, and director, and of course podcast host of one of my favorite podcasts, Armchair Expert. He's known for his appearance in films like Without a Paddle, Zathura: A Space Adventure, Employee of the Month, and many, many more. He also portrayed Crosby Braverman in the NBC comedy drama series, Parenthood from 2010 to 2015. He also played Luke Matthews in the Netflix show, The Ranch, co-starred in ABC's Bless this Mess, and acted in the MTV reality series Punk’d. And since 2018, Dax has hosted the award-winning podcast show, Armchair Expert, where he interviews celebrities, journalists, and academics about the messiness of being human. Want to be a Jay Shetty Certified Life Coach? Get the Digital Guide and Workbook from Jay Shetty https://jayshettypurpose.com/fb-getting-started-as-a-life-coach-podcast/What We Discuss:00:00 Intro02:30 A good memory but terrible with remembering dates09:00 The memories that support your own identity14:14 The ‘you’ embracing yourself23:04 Running from or embracing your ethnicity26:18 Getting drawn to successful people29:20 The practice of having vulnerable conversations33:08 Getting out of the skepticism38:49 Recognize what the people around you want49:38 Entertaining two ideas at once that are seemingly contradictory56:36 Encouraging critical thinking at home01:06:11 Teaching your children how to be resilient01:10:20 Balance between self validation and humility01:15:43 Dax on Final FiveEpisode ResourcesDax Shepard | InstagramArmchair Expert Podcast | YouTube | Instagram | Facebook | Twitter